If a fully grown adult is afraid to leave their phone around you because of a relationship...He/she has failed as a partner!

Some of you need intense therapy because you suffer from paranoia and chronic insecurity. You have no confidence in yourself and that lack of confidence has rubbed off in your relationship. You come up with very stup!d narratives to justify insecurity instead of finding solutions to it. Always snooping. Always depressed. Always angry and always ending up hurt, Yet, not smart enough to realize snooping does not, cannot stop a cheater from cheating. You catch them this time, they become creative and come up with newer tactics to hide it from you. Y’all snoop and after finding out the secrets, You still stay in the relationship with the same cheat, with the same lair because you are stuck! You are emotionally weak, too weak to move on, You know how fragile you are, yet you keep on snooping. Okay, You’ve found out, Break up and move on, You can’t, You are still here. Look inside the mirror, You will see an insecure man, an emotionally unstable woman struggling to dig out truths they cannot handle. Take a close look in the society we live in, Do you really believe you can stop your partner from being admired or admiring someone? If he’s good looking, girls will troop over him and if she’s attractive, be rest assured that men will troop over her. Sometimes your partner will be tempted, sometimes they will resist, other times they will fall, But if they love you enough, if they mean well for you, they will always find the strength within them to rise again and overcome. Snooping will get you broken. It will break your self esteem and sometimes make you feel totally used and worthless. The truth is, any imagined secret that makes you suspect enough to want to snoop, is a secret you already know. Anyone who can hold their partners phone, know the passwords and not abuse that privilege is a true King/Queen. Learn that, because in a relationship, there is nothing sweeter than reluctantly dropping your phone with Bae without being suspect.