A GREAT SPOUSE,

hmmmm......Everybody want one, but few want to be one. Don't get me wrong, it's possible, you can be one but it takes work, patience, humbleness, strength, weakness, character, love, hope, joy, pain, suffering, faith and on top of all that, God's guidance. It's not something that is glamorous or just comes easily, sorry to disappoint you. But if you truly desire for your marriage to move forward please understand that it's not about how good of a mate you used to be but it's all about the kind of mate you choose to be now! We (both husband & wife) can get so caught up on how we use to be a great spouse. When in fact, true greatness is never gained before the battles. It's our response to the oppositions that truly define us and what we are really made of. What you did for your marriage yesterday is all good and well, but if you maintain that "can and will do despite" mentality, it makes a greater statement now. Now you can say I'M A GREAT SPOUSE! Continue to work instead of always looking for the pay first. If God is leading in your marriage then always know, if you are willing to work, then He will make you A GREAT SPOUSE!