Here are thirty (30) relationship facts...✍🏾

1- Lasting relationship requires a lot of tolerance and forgiveness. 2- Lasting relationship requires tolerance even when you don’t feel like tolerating and understanding even when you do not understand. 3- Lasting relationship requires financial capital to properly support, empower and your partner a treat. 4- Lasting relationship requires obedience from the woman and reward for obedience from the man. 5- It is normal to feel doubts and insecurities in a relationship but also learn to ignore your fears and hope for the best. 6- Lasting relationship requires mental security, Until your partner feels peace around you, they are never truly safe. 7- Lasting relationship requires emotional security, Until you can assure them of your loyalty, they will never feel secure. 8- Lasting relationship requires physical presence, It is not enough to call or text, Be there, hold hands, watch each other smile it builds intimacy. 9- Lasting relationship requires honesty. Always learn to speak your heart, keeping things buried can affect the quality of love. 10- Lasting relationship requires team work. Be involved in each other’s lives and also contribute the best way you can. 11- Lasting relationship requires communication. Always keep in touch no matter how brief, promotes reassurance. 12- Love is selfish so for a relationship to last, You must not give your partner’s time and attention to others. 13- Lasting relationship requires temporary foolishness. Until you lose control for them, It is not love. 14- Lasting relationship requires a little fight here and then, It will help you understand each other’s feelings better. 15- For a relationship to last Your partner must always come first, not second or third, put them first! 16- Lasting relationship requires blind trust. No one is a saint or perfect you just have to give your partner the benefit of doubt and hope they do not betray you in the end. Stop snooping. Stop nagging. Build your self esteem and stop always feeling insecure and not good enough. 17- A relationship cannot last until you and your partner share similarities. Dating someone with similar lifestyle promotes teamwork. 18- Lasting relationship requires physical work. You must make conscious and intentional efforts to make your partner comfortable. 19- Lasting relationship requires sacrifice. Until you are willing to drop certain lifestyles, friends or attitudes, You are not ready to build. 20- Lasting relationship does not need the presence of Ex or admirers or friends who don’t believe in love. You must surround yourself with people who believe in love as much as you do. Iron sharpens iron. 21- For a relationship to last, You must stop telling your friends everything. Learn to hands things for yourself, It’s your relationship not theirs. 22- Relationship requires two people working hard mentally, spiritually and financially to improve and empower each other, not a hustler and a leech. 23- You cannot keep breaking up every time you fee bored or disrespected at some point you have to stay and see where it leads. 24- It is easy to fall in love, also easy to fall out of love because it’s all cravings and chemistry but when you learn to love someone, It never fades. 25- If you love someone make it clear and plain, no mind games, no packaging. Kill your fears and put in your best, if it works it works. 26- Don’t listen to what people say about love and relationship being a scam, Their personal experience doesn’t invalidate love. It exists and you will find yours. 27- There is no such thing as : If it’s meant to be it will be” not in a relationship. If it is going to be, It requires work, You must work to make it be. 28- Jokes are fundamental to building a relationship, If you cannot crack a joke to make your partner laugh, learn to be a joke or try out a clown costume. 29- The key to making your partner addicted to you is to shape, influence and empower them mentally and emotionally. 30- You need to drop your ego and learn from each other, take corrections and apologize when you are wrong. Egocentrism is a toxic trait.